B O N F I R E
JOURNEY INTO A NEW STORY
The HERMANITOS BONFIRE is an online men’s circle
co-led by Jake, Diederik, and Daniel.
It’s a space to ignite your spirit as you
connect deeply with your self and others.
Embrace the power of
brotherhood
and find direction by stepping
into a space where you can
share anything,
feel everything,
and be witnessed without judgment.
"Great session yesterday. I wasn't expecting to go so deep on a workday.
When I was first introduced to the men's group,
I was apprehensive. I'm not any more.”
- Josh
CONNECTION
Weekly calls, co-led by Jake, Diederik, and Daniel. During these calls, we will have the opportunity to slow down, to feel into deeper parts of ourselves, and to relate to other men through our individual life experience .
COMMUNITY
In between calls, we will stay connected in a group chat, where we will check-in with each other, and report back on our new practices, as well as wins and challenges that come up as we move through life.
DISCIPLINE
Expect to discover new levels of discipline, cultivated through mutual support and accountability. We will introduce various practices, and lean into weekly challenges that will help us develop new habits, and show up as the best version of ourselves.
PURPOSE, DIRECTION, CLARITY
As vitality returns, and we start living from a more regulated nervous system, we take steps that align with our deepest values, actions that have a clear direction, and show up with a greater sense of clarity.
SAFE SPACE
Our strength lies in coming together as a group of men, guided by open hearts and the willingness to be vulnerable, truthful, and honest with ourselves. This sacred space will allow us to share our self-discovery while also learning to hold space for one another.
“I learned to reconnect with my body and quiet my mind
through positive-habit forming exercises and through
the radical honesty shared between the members of the group.”
- Ed
"the REAL MAN SMILES in TROUBLE, GATHERS STRENGTH from DISTRESS, and GROWS BRAVE by REFLECTION."
JOIN THE BONFIRE
$89 USD
per month
Join anytime. Attend all of the calls, or only the ones that fit with your schedule.
Live calls are about 90min, and take place
every Thursdays at 11am EST / 8am PST
“Jake is wise beyond his years, his coaching is professional, respectful & authentic.
He held me accountable to my goals,
and together we solved many of the problems
I was facing both in my personal and professional life.”
- Ryan
3x the love. 3x the encouragement. 3x the support.
MEET YOUR GUIDES
J A K E K O K O T
Jake holds the most loving, judgment-free space, bringing a childlike playfulness to any environment. His capacity to listen and reflect is unrivalled, making everyone feel heard and seen. Devoted to bettering himself as a man, partner, coach, and friend, Jake connects on an emotional level that inspires limitless dreaming and immense power. Through his coaching, breath work, and mindset training, Jake embodies a blend of leadership, playfulness, and determination, helping you unlock your dormant potential and live your most mythical life.
D I E D E R I K R I J K E N S
Diederik is a Human Design and Gene Keys expert with a deep understanding of the cosmic language and the magic of life. Known for his clear and concise expression, he lovingly calls out any misalignment or self-deception, guiding clients towards their true path. As the ultimate hype man, Diederik holds a frequency of belief that surpasses one's own capacity, seeing greatness within individuals before they recognize it themselves. His heightened energetic sensitivity allows for profound attunement with his clients, facilitating transformative and deeply personalized coaching experiences.
D A N I E L K U D I S H
Daniel brings authenticity and courage to any space, encouraging others to speak their truth and embrace hidden parts of themselves. With deep experience in fatherhood and plant medicine ceremonies, his grounded presence serves as an anchor for profound change. He delivers feedback with grace, maintaining high standards of excellence paired with self-compassion. Articulate and artistic, Daniel captures the unseen and transforms knowledge into courage, guiding clients toward powerful transformation.
THE BEGINNING OF LOS HERMANITOS
Jake, Diederik, and Daniel met on the beaches of Costa Rica, in the little town of Samara, where we were all living at the time. Along with Jay (pictured here), we formed a small & intimate circle that consisted of silly playtime on the beach, followed by sacred conversation around the fire. We have gotten to know each other in that space, and deepened our friendships through one on one time together.
The three of us are deeply aligned on this mission, and the power that these men’s container inherently hold for all of us. We believe that growth is inevitable, and that by tapping into discipline, accountability, and vulnerability, we can feel less alone as we move through the process of transformation.